love

i am starting to wonder if you ever really can get over someone. I mean if you ever really loved someone how can you just stop. how do you turn the feelings off if you really at one point felt like that. But i think that maybe those feelings and emotions turn into something else. i think that if you love someone you want them to be happy and with that come the recognition that you might not be the person who can be that for them and thats ok. right?